你能分清楚爱和喜欢吗？

喜歡和愛咫尺千里。

當你喜歡一個人時，你想和他在一起，因為他會帶給你快樂；

離開後，你會想念，想著想著就會笑，然後繼續你平靜的生活，並期待著與他再一次重逢。

當你愛一個人時，你想和他在一起，那是一種牽腸掛肚的捨不得，怕他受委屈，怕他不能好好照顧自己；

離開後，你也會想念，想著想著歎一口氣，'不知他現在過的怎樣？'

然後你繼續你平靜的生活，希望他早日回到你身邊。

你喜歡的人在你眼中是天使，無所不能，他總會滿足你的任性的要求。

你愛的人在你眼中是孩子，傻傻的，你不期望他做出什麼'好事'來，只一味縱容他那些讓人哭笑不得的舉動。

你會希望你喜歡的人陪著你，然而你心中想的可能是你愛的人；

你會希望陪在你愛的人身邊，看他在你面前睡得如此安逸甜美毫不設防的樣子，你會微笑，會覺得好幸福。

你喜歡的人傷害了你，你會生氣，並且一定要讓他哄著騙著逗你笑你才原諒他；

你愛的人傷害了你，你只會獨自傷心，因為你怕對他大吼大叫會嚇著他，你憂傷地微笑著，看著他的眼睛，

一旦發現他的眼裡流露出歉意和悔恨，你會立即心疼地摟他在懷裡，那一刻，你也是幸福的。

你可以同時喜歡很多人，你會希望和很多人在一起，

但也許很多年後你才發現，原來你愛的就只有那麼一個，

就那麼一個，怎麼都不會變，你以為把他忘記了，其實只是忙的沒空想起而已，

對於你喜歡的人，你關注的是他的優點；

對於你愛的人，你關注的是他的缺點，並且，那些缺點如果無關原則的話，它們在你眼裡是可愛的，獨一無二的。

喜歡和愛其實只有一紙之隔，任何愛都從喜歡開始，當有天你突然發現，你喜歡的那個人在你眼中不再完美，

而他的瑕疵正如月中的桂影一般讓你更加依依不捨，你會覺得與他光彩照人的一面相比，

你更願意看他在你面前無助的表情，不知道是不是應該祝賀你，總之，你的感情昇華了

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仰慕不是愛，甚至不是喜歡，當你對一個人只有仰慕之情時，你們在一起便失去了和諧。

有人說愛一個人很累，的確是，因為你想為他承擔，可是愛與喜歡相比最大的魅力就在於，

當你和愛的人在一起時，你的感覺就像回家了！

Very Touching~

This will give you the chills........

GOOD chills.

A young man had been to Wednesday Night Bible Study.

The Pastor had shared about listening to God and obeying the Lord's voice

The young man couldn't help but wonder, 'Does God still speak to people?'

After service, he went out with some friends for coffee and pie and they discussed the message. Several different ones talked about how God had led them in different ways.

It was about ten o'clock when the young man started driving home. Sitting in his car, he just began to pray, 'God...If you still speak to people, speak to me. I will listen. I will do my best to obey.'

As he drove down the main street of his town, he had the strangest thought to stop and buy a gallon of milk.

He shook his head and said out loud, 'God is that you?' He didn't get a reply and started on toward home.

But again, the thought, buy a gallon of milk.

The young man thought about Samuel and how he didn't recognize the voice of God, and how little Samuel ran to Eli.

'Okay, God, in case that is you, I will buy the milk.' It didn't seem like too hard a test of obedience. He could always use the milk. He stopped and purchased the gallon of milk and started off toward home.

As he passed Seventh Street , he again felt the urge, 'Turn Down that street.'

This is crazy he thought, and drove on past the intersection.

Again, he felt that he should turn down Seventh Street .

At the next intersection, he turned back and headed down Seventh.

Half jokingly, he said out loud,

'Okay, God, I will.'

He drove several blocks, when suddenly, he felt like he should stop. He pulled over to the curb and looked around. He was in a semi- commercial area of town. It wasn't the best but it wasn't the worst of neighborhoods either. The businesses were closed and most of the houses looked dark like the people were already in bed.

Again, he sensed something! , 'Go and give the milk to the people in the house across the street.' The young man looked at the house. It was dark and it looked like the people were either gone or they were already asleep. He started to open the door and then sat back in the car seat.

'Lord, this is insane. Those people are asleep and if I wake them up, they are going to be mad and I will look stupid.' Again, he felt like he should go and give the milk.

Finally, he opened the door, 'Okay God, if this is you, I will go to the door and I will give them the milk. If you want me to look like a crazy person, okay. I want to be obedient. I guess that will count for something, but if they don't answer right away, I am out of here.'

He walked across the street and rang the bell. He could hear some noise inside. A man's voice! yelled out, 'Who is it? What do you want?' Then the door opened before the young man could get away.

The man was standing there in his jeans and T-shirt. He looked like he just got out of bed. He had a strange look on his face and he didn't seem too happy to have some stranger standing on his doorstep. 'What is it?'

The young man thrust out the gallon of milk, 'Here, I brought this to you.' The man took the milk and rushed down a hallway.

Then from down the hall came a woman carrying the milk! toward the kitchen. The man was following her holding a baby. The baby was crying. The man had tears streaming down his face.

The man began speaking and half crying, 'We were just praying. We had
some big bills this month and we ran out of money. We didn't have any milk for our baby. I was just praying and asking God to show me how to get some milk.'

His wife in the kitchen yelled out, 'I asked him to send an Angel with some. Are you an Angel?'

The young man reached into his wallet and pulled out all the money he had on him and put in the man's hand.. He turned and walked back toward his car and the tears were streaming down his face.

He knew that God still answers prayers.

夫妻同心树‏

她比他小 20 岁，嫁给他的时候，家乡的人都以为她傍上大款。只有她知道，他到底是一个什么样的男人。他只是一个普通的男人，黑，丑，一口黄牙。媒人当初可没这么说，只说是个过日子的男人，就因为家里穷给耽搁了，一直没找上媳妇。那阵子，没找上媳妇的都去山区找，有四川的、山西的、湖南的…… 花几千元就可以找来。那男人也托人带一个回来，这就是她，一个死了丈夫的女人。媒人说男人富着呢，靠手艺吃饭。女人因为急于逃离那个家庭，问都没问男人会什么手艺就嫁过来了。过来后才知道，他的手艺就是在外面风吹雨淋地修鞋，再加上男人长得丑陋，让她有种上当的感觉。回去，已无退路，婆家人叫她丧门星，说是她克死了丈夫。
　再婚后，男人很宠她，隔三岔五给她买些小玩意来，一盒粉饼，一支口红，几串荔枝 ……她长到30 岁，从来没有用过口红，更不用说吃荔枝了，很快，她就觉得自己比杨贵妃还要幸福，吃荔枝的时候，男人不吃，只是傻傻地看着她吃。她说∶ “ 你也吃。”他说∶“ 我不爱吃它，看着你吃我就高兴。 ” 后来，她偶然上街，随口问了一下荔枝的价格，吓一跳，竟然要20元 1 斤。她的眼睛一下湿润了，他怎么可能不爱吃荔枝 ? 他是舍不得吃呀。
　她更加疼他，早晨早早起来给他做饭，晚上做好热乎乎的饭菜等他回来；冬天的时候，男人在街上修鞋，一天下来，冻得全身冰冷，女人就把男人的脚放到自己怀里暖着。男人也很知足，说是上辈子修来的福才会娶到她，他为什么 50 岁还没有结婚,就为等她呗。说得女人心花怒放。
　女人见男人每天那么累很心疼，她说∶“ 给我买台机器吧，我和你一块修鞋去。” 男人不答应，说他挣的钱足够养活她，可女人认真了，偏要去。于是街上总能看到一对老夫少妻在修鞋，两个人紧挨着，有鞋修的时候，两个人就一起动手，空闲时，就有说有笑地聊着。冬天刮大风，女人的手都冻红了，耳朵也冻得青一块紫一块，这时，男人买来一块烤红薯，红薯散发着诱人的香味。男人剥开，用嘴吹着，却不吃，
他把红薯放到女人嘴边，女人幸福地咬一口，又吹一吹，让男人吃。他们一人一口地吃着，好象享受一顿美食，好象吃着爱情的圣餐。
　有一天，男人对女人说∶ “ 总有一天，我会走在你前面。”女人就哭了，说∶ “那我和你一起去。” 男人说∶ “不行 !”然后男人又说∶ “ 我们现在的钱还不是很多，再挣几年，给你养老应该没问题。还有，我给你在地里种了500 棵树，等有一天我去了，你也不能动了，那 500棵树也长大了，我相信它们能够养活你。 ”
　女人扑到男人怀里哭了。500 棵树，那只是500棵树吗?这一辈子从没有人替她这样想过，可这个男人甚至为她想到老年，她觉得这辈子真是值了。现在城里人兴什么夫妻树、爱情树，而她的男人给她种的树要比那些树珍贵一万倍，那是一片夫妻同心树。

the last part of amateur radio course~

well..now already reached the last part of the amateur radio course...before we leave,they(tutors) was organized a majlis penutup that da higher class king scout oso come to see us n give ucapan...after that,there are a penyampaian hadiah..we got the number one n got a antenna by free...our scoutmaster was very proud...haha..cause we won a activity 'fox hunting' before they give speech...then,a pesuruhjaya who is a nice person named tuan zakran gave us two logo badges..that others din get like the malays who are oso sea scout from sepang n petaling.. they are juz form 5 boy scouts...i din expected boy scouts go for tis course...must be the kelana scout wan..but we r the ones kelana scout among the all participants...the first badge is in JOTA 2007..it's shaped rectangular...but i like the second one the most..which is badge of JOTA 2008 with a 100 years of scouting meaning from year 1908-2008...tis two badges gave me a feel to collect tis badges cause it's not easy to get...mostly the upper class king scout wif license of amateur radio have the chance to get it...so i must appreciate what i got...^^

amateur radio course sunshine day..

well...tis is called sunshine day because we been there for three days two night..tis day 15 march 2009 is a best weather day without rains...in d evening, the sun gone down n it bright until all the beach bright up..but a few minutes ago it become more beautiful view that shown at the right pic..at bagan lalang sepang not only nice,but it is a good place for holidays..who enjoy fishing n swimming n diving n snorkeling n kayaking can go there ..dun miss it..for those hu rich can go der to stay at i think dun know wat star hotel..it shaped like kelapa sawit n the hotel name is sepang gold coast..it's true..

amateur radio course take 3

the left pic is wat we called amateur radio..people wif license who take test class A n B use it to communiciate to each other in the whole world by adjust the frequency n place antenna..the good ur antenna the clear to hear when use the amateur radio..hu did not take the license will be denda RM300000 n masuk penjara for 3 years..well..it's not something to be play play..it is serious...for the right pic is i think rizzal..haha forgot ed..but i know he is from ibu pejabat malaysia scout association in kelana komunikasi.. who teach us amateur radio..haha..he is oso use the amateur radio the most person...

Continu3d for amateur radio course at bagan lalang,sepang~

allright..lets continue..the right pic is the grass full wif rainwater..but fortunately we din camp at grass..but oso the same..after the heavy rain in the early morning, our tent had been destroy n we did not bring extra tent..damn rain..make me cant sleep well by two night...n at the left pic is something special i capture der...now u see..rumah di atas pokok...but i tell u...tis rumah di atas pokok made by using paku..but it's strong la...even wif heavy rain n strong wind oso cant destroy it..